This
week I got to go to my sister’s house for the day. We had some work to do for her so we
went. I always get excited about seeing
her and go with a whole sac of expectations about the time. I know in my head my expectations are
unreasonable, but each time I go I pack up those expectations and drag them
along with me. Then, rather than
enjoying my time, I am frustrated because my expectations are not being
met. So, I get to pack up my
disappointment for the trip home.
This
time I tried to focus on what we were doing, and enjoying that. I tried to be more flexible. So when a disaster in the kitchen delayed and
changed the breakfast plan, I prayed, and waited without being obnoxious. When the dog tried to sit on me, I was
patient, and nudged her in a different direction. When Mom and Abi went shopping for clothes
Abi needed, I did not get mad, but prayed they would find what was needed. When lunch was not to my time schedule, I
waited and prayed for no disasters.
At
the end of the day the work was accomplished, and I was happy. I had a pleasant day with my sister, and I
experienced little frustration. It was a
good time. I could thank the Lord for a
good time. Next time I do not have to
carry the heavy bag of expectations when I go.
Thus the heavier bag of disappointment also is not on my back.
Now,
to remember this and do it!
